I miss intimacy, being held, kissed, etc
He told me five days later that he planned to transition. He just moved out without any explanation. We have been together 11 years and have two beautiful children together. I tried to stay with him and salvage the marriage and think about if I could go on this journey with him. I searched the internet looking for answers. Eventually I found them within myself. The reality is I married a man and i dont want this in my life and the uncertainity of it all made me very unnhappy as all the compromises were mine to make. Transgender stuff aside my husband is a very self centered, selfish man who has little or no regard for how this lie and ily. I truely loved him and he never really loved me. I stayed with my husband to stop him transitioning. I have just let him go because I was so unhappy and was sick of living with this disregard he had for me. I wasted a year of my life trying but I can tell the kids I did everything. I need a man in my life to live with. My husband never gave me the relationship I wanted ever as he has massive empathy issues and compassion issues. So much going on and I am so much better with it out of my life. He will always be around and he will always be the children’s father but it just doesnt have to be in my life! Thanks for putting this page up it did help me to make a final decision!
I’m not saying I am anti trangender people at all, I just dont really want it in my life and I feel good having made that decision
The issue is that your spouse is just self centered and cruel to abandon you. Not that she was trans.
No, I don’t think the issue is just that her husband is self centered and cruel. I have been with a man who hid his transgender issues from me for years…we have been together for 14 years. The relationship started out good and he was kind, compassionate and giving. However, in the past 6 years or so, I have found female clothing and boots he has ordered from Victoria’s Secret, swimsuits, texts to transgender support groups, have found him hooked up to a breast pump, pumping milk, infatuated with making his breasts make more milk, experimented with hormones he ordered online and taking testosterone injections prescribed for him due to a low testosterone count, taking vitamins to increase breast milk payday lending Hagerstown production, texts about how to hide his enlarged breasts on vacation at the beach, landfill not admit he is transgender to me. He stopped having sex with me about 4 years ago and is NOT one to cuddle, hold or kiss me in the past 6 years or so. He has used chronic pain as his excuse, as he is now 64 and has had chronic pain issues as well, so I wasn’t sure what was causing his low sex drive. I have told him many times how difi ult this is for me and have cried because I feel lonely. It just isn’t fair for him to only have his needs met and for me to feel lonely. He has never admitted to being transgender. He hides his cross dressing clothing, but I have found it in his presence. He get very defensive and will not admit transgender issues. When taking testosterone for low energy fatigue which is prescribed by his physician, his body turns it into estrogen! I feel deceived, lied to, cheated out of intimacy and no sex for about 4 to 5 years. Is that not selfish?